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So, I know I haven't been here much, but I feel as though I'm starting to get back to it. I have been doing some housecleaning around here, too. I cut a bunch of old communities, and I also trimmed the f-list of a handful of journals that haven't been updated in about a year and a half. I think most of them now have journals under different names, and a few have just gone on to other things... (If you were cut and you want to be added back, just let me know!)

There is a post about my mom coming soon, and there will be many more to follow it, I am sure. (I'll probably lj-cut them, since they likely won't be happy ones...) Suffice to say, it's just insanely awful and heartbreaking, but I'm dealing. The hardest part (well, sometimes, there's a lot of hardest parts, really. They sort of take turns.) is knowing it should not have happened this way. There has been so much negligence with her care; it's really infuriating. I'm documenting everything now...

My class is going well so far, and I'm really enjoying it. I may lose one of the ones for fall, but if so, I can always offer it up next time, so it's cool. I may put some feelers out for other schools, too. I'm just really happy to be teaching, at last.

Otherwise, things have been surprisingly....well, calm seems the wrong word given the circumstances, but I'll be darned if I can think of a better one....

Date: January 21st, 2011 04:33 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thewenchywiccan.livejournal.com
You've all been in my thoughts. ♥ Keep us updated as you can.

Date: January 21st, 2011 03:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] raven-moon.livejournal.com
Thank you sweetie, I will. And you've been in mine - I know things are tough for you, too. Thus we grow..... (But Universe, easy on the pruning shears, eh?)

Date: January 22nd, 2011 06:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thewenchywiccan.livejournal.com
No kidding. *hugs* PRUNE being the key word. ♥

Date: January 21st, 2011 04:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] celtickittenmew.livejournal.com
I am so sorry about the lack of care your mother received. Many in the medical profession just simply shouldn't be where they are because of the impact they have on other people for ill. **hugs** I am glad that your class is going well. I didn't receive your phone message about coffee until this evening. I really need to change phones. Anyway, I would love to have coffee next week when the snow lets up enough that we won't be stranded out there. How's next Friday? Let me know. **hugs**

Date: January 21st, 2011 03:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] raven-moon.livejournal.com
Oh, I can think of several people that have no business anywhere near vulnerable people! I've tried to advocate as much as I've been able, but I'm definitely up in everyone's faces with her care now!

No worries - my phone is pretty schizo these days as well. (I've had the darned thing for three years; I think that's a record!) Give me a jingle when you have a good opening, and we'll set it up.

Oh, and happy belated! I am horrible about birthdays, but it sounds like you had a great day. Many happy returns, dear! And get some rest, you crazy gamer-gal you! *hugs*

Date: January 21st, 2011 10:16 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fractal-sutra.livejournal.com
I've noticed more people lately are coming back to their Live Journal homes and doing some spring cleaning. Maybe 2011 will yield more growth and development. Here's to finding out.

Date: January 21st, 2011 03:14 pm (UTC)

Date: January 21st, 2011 05:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cyranothe2nd.livejournal.com
I am so sorry to hear about your mom. (((bb)))

Date: January 21st, 2011 09:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] raven-moon.livejournal.com
Thanks. It sucks hugely, but at least we've been able to alter her meds and such, so she should feel a lot better, and be able to enjoy the time she has.

Date: January 22nd, 2011 07:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lucretiasheart.livejournal.com
I hope thing improve with your mother's care. Documenting everything is very important, though. Let them know you're doing so and that may be enough to improve matters with her caregivers.

Good to have you around LJ land.

Date: January 22nd, 2011 07:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sorshawolf.livejournal.com
I'm still around, I just don't have much to post about recently. I'm so sorry to hear about your mom, and you're in my thoughts. -hugs-

Date: January 22nd, 2011 08:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] raven-moon.livejournal.com
Oh, I kept ya! There are a few folks that I know have reasons to be away, or that I know are still reading, and I've totally kept them on! Thanks for the kind thoughts, too. *hugs*

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• Asking for help is not, as it turns out, fatal.
• Laughing is easier than pulling your hair out, and doesn't have the unfortunate side effect of making you look like a plague victim.
• Even the biggest tasks can be defeated if taken a bit at a time.
• I can write a paper the night before it's due, but the results are not all they could be.
• Be thorough, but focused.
• Trust yourself.
• Honesty, always.

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