For what it's worth, you know I can at least sympathize with what you're going through and where you're coming from - as can my "Witchy Mom" Beth, who's own Mother went through a nearly identical trial this past Summer. There's nothing I can really say though to truly help or ease any pain, but that I wish her the best health absolutely possible, for as long as possible, to make the time as enjoyable as it can be, for everyone, especially for you and Nibblet. My Inbox is always open (for what it's worth). ♥